10 WAYS TO GET HIM TO NOTICE YOU

Crushing on Him is hard-work. Getting him to notice is even harder, because as they say: “Guys are blind to these things”. But in the end, your efforts would be worth it.

Here are 10 ways you could get his attention, and keep it (that's even more important).

10 Ways to Get Him to Notice You.

1. Smile More.

You should know by now that guys are easily enraptured by smiles.

Do you smile often? Or only when complemented?

A smile lights up your face, making you warm and reachable. Stop squeezing your face like someone with a mouthful of lime juice! Smile.

2. Confidence.

Wearing your confidence like a jacket is something that is admirable as well as eye-catching.

Loud is not confidence. 

Rude is not confidence.

Confidence is when you are comfortable in your own skin. You are outspoken; not cowering behind a mask.

People easily notice those who speak up and express their thoughts. So put on your big girl panties!

3. Dress Well.

You don't have to dress like a stripper or a seductress to command the attention in a room. You just have to dress smart and classy.

Know what works for your body type, and the colours that make your skin pop!

A red and black dress is a wardrobe must-have, because these colours work with every skin tone. Don't just wear that dress because it's in vogue, wear what matches your skin and flaunts your curves.

4. Smell Nice.

What do people say when they walk past you? Is meeting you a memorable experience?

Smell is something the brain continues to remember, so find a scent that represents who you are and stick with it. A guy will almost always remember your smell. So pick a fragrance that is worth remembering. 

(Plus, your mouth should smell nice too. Brush right, chew gums, or use breath mints. He won't stay if you have mouth odour – beautiful or not.)

5. Speak Intelligently.

Nobody wants to be saddled with an olodo! What comes out from your mouth when you speak? Is there anybody upstairs? Or is it just celebrity gist and gossip?

You are a 21st century woman who should be as intelligent as you are beautiful. Beauty doesn't cover it anymore. He may notice you because you are beautiful, but your beauty won't keep a man. Have intelligent conversations, make jokes, but let your words show that “you went to school”.

6. Have a vision. 

Nobody wants a liability anymore. As much as men like to be responsible for pampering and taking care of you, they also want someone who has dreams, aspirations, skills. 

They want to be able to brag about how big your dreams are, and how much of a boss-lady their partner is. Don't be a pest, be a mutual parasite.

7. Find your hair-do! 

There are some hairdos that are a complete hairdon't for ladies. As a lady you should know the kind of hairstyles that flatter your face, and doesn't distract from your overall package. 

Hair colours are nice and attractive, but it should add character to your face, rather than be the only thing standing out, making you a pale comparison to the glitz and glamour of what is on your hair.

8. Perfect that strut! 

This might sound odd but guys notice the way you walk too. Perfect a strut that exudes confidence and style.

Don't waddle like a penguin, or stomp like you have a log of wood on your shoulders. Walk like the sleek, poised, elegant woman that you are.

9. Have a sense of humour. 

This life isn't that serious. Don't always be on the defensive. Learn to take jokes, and give out a few jokes too. Try that crack a few jokes around him, not demeaning jokes, but jokes that can bring out his smile almost immediately.

Don't be too uptight, and don't be easily humoured. Strike a balance between. You don't have to work that hard, find something funny in mundane things and share your views with a straight face. 

If he doesn't laugh, just say "wow, that was super funny in my head. I dun fuck up!" That should at least earn you a chuckle.

10. Character. 

If everything else works, then your character should attract him even more, and not repel him. The subject of character (attitude, behaviour, emotional intelligence) is a really broad one, but here is the general gist: have an attractive character. 

Don't be a psycho, or a maniac. Be respectful enough to air your views in a constructive way, whilst hearing out his views too. Don't be flighty, ready to snap, self-centered, or have a mouth without filter. 

Groom your character to be attractive. Always ask yourself: if someone else had my character attitude or attitudinal pattern, would I even be attracted to that person? Your answer should guide you on the path to character grooming.

The way to grabbing your crush's attention isn't as difficult as you might think. You just need to possess a character you're proud of, have a sense of humour, look good even on your bad days, smell nice, speak with flourish, and have a commendable vision!

Which one of these ways works best for you?

Leave your comments! I look forward to hearing from you!